You don’t realize how special your family is. 99% of the time, you take them for granted whether they’re around or not.
That is until you have special moments like these.
Becca tho. Why.
When you’re together and you catch up on life.
When you’re laughing so hard your sides hurt and you’re crying. Or you stay up till 2am and literally fall asleep talking to each other.
That was what happened when the cousins came. We haven’t seen them in a couple of years, but they came to visit for New Year’s weekend. It was so so good. I didn’t realize how much I missed them and loved them until they had to go. I cried so hard the day they left. I had taken them for granted.
My uncle flew in from Korea and stayed with us for like ten days or so. Komo came for two days during that time. Oh, and Uncle Joe surprised us and stayed with us too. So we had our family reunion and played games and watched movies. Here are some of my favorite moments.
That time when we watched Inside Out and we all cried together.
All the puzzles we put together. With every piece, Uncle David would say, “This is key.”
When we played games and Uncle David said,”The losers shall eat chocolate because they are sad.”
The fact that Uncle Joe brought more food than clothes with him when he arrived. How does he manage to get everything through security?!?!? #donutsfordays #whitecastle #ilovemyuncle
Sam was baptized the same weekend both uncles were here. (Komo unfortunately had to go back to work.)
With every game we played, Uncle David calculated the probability of the dice or the cards and insisted that we trust the math… Because the math works and math is life.
We also took a trip down to Texas to see some friends. Man, have I missed these girls!
An unexpected surprise! We got to see Aunt Laura and Uncle Kerry!
Aunt Laura and Uncle AJ renewed their wedding vows for their 25th anniversary.
Hearing parts of their journey together and hearing their new promises to each other with the ocean crashing behind them was such a privilege. Being married to only each other for 25 years is a rarity. It’s one thing to get married, but it’s another thing to stay married. Their marriage and my parents’ marriage are a testimony to the Lord’s goodness and His grace. That’s the kind of marriage I want–one that is firmly anchored to the Lord and to be growing and encouraging each other to be more like Christ.
With all the people I got to see these past few months, James 1:17 kept coming to mind. Every soul I got to see, every hug I got to give, and every laugh we shared was a beautiful gift from the Father of lights. I don’t know when I’ll get to see them again. It’s more fun now that we’re older, but it’s also harder to get together because we’re working and there’s college and life happens. But I realize that my family is important. I often take them for granted, but they are a good, good gift from my heavenly Father. I need to make time for them. I may not see my friends on a regular basis, but every text message, every card, and every skype call or lunch date is a good, good gift from my Father. I can’t take that for granted.
“These are the days, these are the days. The days we’ll never get back. These are the days, these are the days. And these days are all we have.”